Way back in prehistory (about 2000), before this blog anyway, LLLC had a conference in Winnipeg for moms and La Leche League Leaders. I was asked, with a couple of other moms, to lead a short session about working and breastfeeding or going to school and breastfeeding. At the time I had just been back to work for a few months and my daughter was still nursing. She was just over a year old.
The three of us got together and worked out a mind map about all the things we had to think about when going back to work or school. We handed out copies of the mind map and we just used it to guide the conversation. It was a great session. I remembered it the other day when there was a discussion last week in our April La Leche League meeting about how mothers manage breastfeeding when they go back to work. Here was our map:
By the way, two great books on this topic are:
Hirkani’s Daughters: Women Who Scale Modern Mountains to Combine Breastfeeding and Working, by Jennifer Hicks. This is a great collection of short pieces about women in all kinds of working situations who have figured out strategies that worked for them. The title is taken from an Indian folk tale about Hirkani, a woman who is said to scaled a 1000-ft cliff to breastfeed her baby. This book is not available in the Winnipeg Public Library, but we have it in our group library. Highly recommended.
Nursing Mother, Working Mother: the essential guide to breastfeeding your baby, before and after your return to work, by Gayle Pryor and Kathleen Huggins. There is one copy in the Winnipeg Public Library, plus we have it in our group library. A great book to help you work through the issues.
If you’re breastfeeding and going back to work or school, the best thing is to try to find someone else to talk to who has done this, or is making it work now. Contact one of us any time — or come to a meeting and find your tribe.